Which statement reflects codependent behavior from a spouse of an alcoholic?

The choice indicating that the spouse goes to pick up their partner from the bar when not home by midnight exemplifies codependent behavior because it highlights a pattern of enabling. In this context, codependency often involves one partner taking on the role of caretaker, attempting to manage or rescue the other from the consequences of their actions, which in this case is the spouse's drinking behavior. By intervening and picking up the alcoholic spouse instead of allowing them to face the potential ramifications of their decisions—such as the effects of drinking too much or the repercussions of being out late—the codependent spouse reinforces the drinking behavior and prevents the alcoholic from experiencing the negative consequences that might encourage them to seek help or change.

In contrast, the other responses do not reflect codependency. Expressing concerns about the relationship (the first choice) shows awareness and a desire for change, rather than an unhealthy attachment. Agreeing to attend counseling (the third choice) indicates a willingness to seek support for the relationship. Avoiding drinking entirely (the fourth choice) reflects personal boundaries and self-preservation rather than the unhealthy dynamics characteristic of codependency.